Archive for September, 2009

Summer Highlights

Sunday, September 27th, 2009

Father's Day
Father’s Day

Okay - you know already how much trouble I have getting stuff posted on this blog.  BUT - I will attempt, over the next few days - to give you some of our summer highlights (now that it is fall!).

Ruby and Rochelle

Ruby and Rochelle

Ruby finally got to meet her only girl cousin, Rochelle.  They enjoyed playing together in Florida.

Joanna at Horse Camp

Joanna at Horse Camp

Joanna has been planning all year to attend Miracle Mountain Ranch Horse Camp this summer.  She had a GREAT week! 

Ruby with her Chinese school uniform

Ruby with her Chinese school uniform

We were just goofing off one day, and we got out Ruby’s packpack of belongings from China.  She tried on her school uniform and posed with her Communist Youth Salute! 

Joanna aiming!

Joanna aiming!

Not too shabby!

Not too shabby!

On a lazy Sunday afternoon (rare), we decided to do some target practice.  Ruby loves to watch the “Lion, Witch, and Wardrobe” movie, and Susan practicing her archery.  She had to give it a try!

The Pelley girls with Andy & Susan

The Pelley girls with Andy & Susan

Ruby got to experience her first Amish family reunion!  We said good-bye to Kathy’s nephew Andy and his wife Susan as they were leaving in a few days for India, where Andy will complete his internship in structural engineering.  They will be working with an engineering missions group.  Susan will do graphic arts for the group while they are there. 

Love that Mountain Dew!

Love that Mountain Dew!

Thanks, Andy, for introducing Ruby to Mountain Dew.  She needed more energy!

Ruby meets Maria

Ruby meets Maria

Maria is one of Joanna and Grace’s very best friends.  We were so excited for Ruby to get to know her too!

Four Beautiful Young Ladies

Four Beautiful Young Ladies

Aren’t they lovely?

Mike's birthday
Mike

Ruby and Joanna got Mike a straw hat (per his request) for his birthday!

At Dad's old frat house at Rennsalear

At Rennsalear

On our way to Joni & Friends Family Retreat, we realized that we would be driving within 1/2 hour of Mike’s alma mater, Rennsalear Polytechnic Institute.  Unfortunately, it was a Saturday during the summer, and things were pretty dead, but we were able to get a picture in front of his frat house!
Boston Harbor

Boston Harbor

Also on our way to retreat, we did a super quick “Back to School” field trip to Boston.  Here, the girls enjoy the beautiful view of Boston Harbor!
Old North Church

Old North Church

This was the site of Grace’s famous line, “And some people go to Orlando!”   I’m sure Ruby wondered why all these people were taking pictures of an old building! 
Enjoying fresh lobster on the wharf in Plymouth, Mass
This is what Grace thought of the lobster!
This is what Grace thought of the lobster!
Our New Hampshire cabin

Our New Hampshire cabin

We finally made it to Joni Camp - this was home for the week!
Grace and Beth

Grace and Beth

This is Grace with her “short term missionary” for the week, Beth.
Our family with Beth

Our family with Beth

Beth was such a blessing to us that week!
Ruby's silly hair
Ruby on Crazy Hair Day!
Grace on Crazy Hair Day

Grace on Crazy Hair Day

Joanna’s french braid down the front got old after a few hours!
Even Mike got in on the craziness.  Where’s Kathy’s crazy hair, you ask?  Well, it was SO HOT that week, and not one building had air-conditioning, and there was not one soda machine, that I did not even do my hair that week.  Just wash and go.  THAT was crazy enough for me!
Can you believe that two of Ruby’s leaders were Chinese and spoke Cantonese?  That’s how God works!  It was comforting to know she was in good hands!
Ruby and Joanna say good-night from their top-bunk perches!
As we drove through New Hampshire on our way home, I LOVED these signs, and would have loved it even more to see a moose!
I love this picture.  I only wish  Marissa were in it.  On our way home from New Hampshire, we met up with Ruby’s foster sister.  The girls have spent most of their lives together, and really think of themselves as sisters.  Marissa (Mei Feng) was adopted last summer.  They had not seen each other for over a year.  We told Ruby on the day we got her that we would make sure she got to see Marissa.  We were walking around the amusement park, trying to find them, when Ruby spotted Marissa and took off running. 
Ruby and Marissa meet!

Ruby and Marissa meet!

Waiting to get on a ride

Waiting to get on a ride

It's gonna be good!

It's gonna be good!

 

New Americans!

New Americans!

Too many on that stroller!

Too many on that stroller!

Sisters reunited!

Sisters reunited!

It was a great time.  Ruby changed from her super energetic silly kid to a mommy, really.  She was, once again, Marissa’s care-taker and protector.  We weren’t sure how it would be to say good-bye.  Ruby was very quiet.  I even thought I saw tears.  THEN - I realized she was pouting because Marissa and her brother have really neat hand-held computer games and she wanted one!  Oh well! 
One happy girl!

One happy girl!

We celebrate half-birthdays here - just for the kids.  Actually, you get to pick what we serve for dinner - and you get a cake.  End of celebration.  Since Ruby’s never had a birthday with us, this was an exciting event.  She wanted a German Chocolate cake (much fancier than I usually do).  She didn’t want it in a long cake pan, she wanted “circles”, like my mom made for me on my birthday.  So circles it was!
Our star!

Our star!

Wow!  She's grown!

Wow! She's growing!

Part of every birthday and half birthday is getting measured.  Ruby’s grown nearly two inches since she’s been a Pelley!
Waiting for her turn at the pinata
We had a “Welcome to the USA” Party for Ruby.  She speaks enough English now.  About fifty people came to help us celebrate.  Ruby is waiting her turn for the pinata.  I know a pinata isn’t very American, but it’s fun!
Opening some gifts

Opening some gifts

I only wish I had given someone the camera for the whole day.  I was too busy to take pictures!  Live and learn!
Ruby's first wedding

Ruby with the bride and groom

Another first for Ruby was attending a wedding.  The daughter of Kathy’s college room-mate, Jessica, married Micah.  Ruby loved every minute of it.
Can that girl dance!

Can that girl dance!

This was a very family friendly wedding.  Most of the dancing was just kids and friends dancing - line-dancing, etc.  Ruby LOVED it. 
Enjoying herself

Enjoying herself

Birthday Party

Birthday Party

Ruby was invited to her first birthday party.  Her friend Kristyn celebrated at Chuck E Cheese.  Except for the pizza, it’s a great place!  Ruby still does not like pizza!
Joanna getting into a school book!

Joanna getting into a school book!

Only homeschoolers would have a “back to school” party and get excited about opening boxes of new curriculum!  Ruby kept wondering how there could be a school party, but she found out! 
Another new book?  Yes!

Another new book? Yes! Latin!

Hello Kitty messenger bag

Hello Kitty messenger bag

Ruby wanted a messenger bag like Joanna carries.  She was thrilled with this one.  I was thrilled that it was at Target for $7!
Joanna's first day at Lakeland College

Joanna at Lakeland College -

Our homeschool began a new phase this year when Joanna (a junior)  signed up for two classes at the community college.  She wanted some classroom experience before going off to college.  She’s taking English Composition and Drawing (testing out her architectural desires).  She seems to be enjoying it.  I did not want to embarass her, so I snapped this one quickly.  You have to look really close.  She said, “Mom, I’m used to you taking pictures of everything.”   

 

Six Month “Gotcha” Anniversary

Wednesday, September 23rd, 2009
Our beautiful Ruby and her cake
Our beautiful Ruby and her cake

Six months ago today we met Ruby for the first time.  The next day she became officially ours.  It’s been quite a journey, and we feel blessed.  Her English is coming along quite well - she’s read her first two books in English in the past week - of course, she doesn’t understand all of the words, but she’s reading.  AND - she’s keeping her Chinese - speaking, reading, and writing.  She’s grown nearly two inches.  She’s going on her first overnight without any family this weekend - that’s a HUGE step.  She’s going on a campout with her friends from church.   What a joy she is (most of the time).

Looking towards college

Saturday, September 19th, 2009

We are starting on the long journey of finding the right college for Joanna, who is now a Junior in High School.  I have three goals for her college days:

  1. Find her gifting/calling/ministry
  2. Make some good friends
  3. Develop the skills for a career

I think the first two probably happen best at a Christian college.

 

Thoughts about a “career”:  Joanna has expressed at times that she just wants to be a Mom.  Why does she need a “career”?  I can think of a few good reasons:

  1. She might end up being single, or single-again, and will need to support herself.
  2. She might be the “vocational” half of a bivocational pastoring team.
  3. A career might be the “tent-maker” entry into another country as a missionary

 

Anyway, I think developing career skills is important.  So, which career?  Looking at Joanna’s interests and abilities, we’ve decided that Architecture is probably the best fit for her.  She was always designing and making stuff, with Lego, K’nex, or Playmobile.  Her favorite computer “game” is “3D Home Design”.  She is always sketching ideas for an orphanage or missionary campus or school or something.  And the math/science side of her studies comes pretty easy to her.

 

Joanna had some doubts about her drawing ability, so we signed her up for “Drawing 1” at Lakeland Community College as a “post-secondary” student.  (“Post secondary” means that this class will count both for high school and college credit.)  It is too early to draw any conclusions, but she seems to be enjoying it, despite (for the first time in her academic life) having firm deadlines.

 

So, back to the “which college” question.  We’ve learned that to be a “licensed architect”, you need to graduate from an “NAAB accredited” college program.  There are NAAB accredited programs at only 117 colleges in the US.  Only one of them is at an evangelical Christian college, Judson University.  So that kind of limits her choices!  Judson, which is located in Elgin, IL, about 45 miles northeast of Chicago, is associated with the American Baptist denomination.  (See www.JudsonU.edu if you are interested in information about this school.)

 

This past Monday evening, there was a “Christian College Fair” at one of the high schools near us, so we went there to speak with someone from Judson.  I helped Joanna develop a set of questions.  She brought a clipboard and spent nearly an hour interviewing the admissions counselor!  Joanna seemed to have a fairly positive impression of Judson.  (I spent part of the evening at the “how to pay for college” session.  Ugh!)  — Mike